This has been asked of me before, and I think that it's actually time to maybe open this.
The point of this is that sometime we do step on each others toes, but at the same time I don't want to have to hold yer hands all the time and sort out yer problems. So please use this thread to voice yer opinion / grievance, and hopefully ye guys will be able to sort it out.
Some Rules:
- Keep this civil. No insults, swearing, and all that. Do it like grown-ups, not little children.
- If someone complains about ya, try to look at it objectively. We all have flaws, and nobody is perfect, despite how much we believe we are.
- Pointless and non-related posts will be removed.
If this shouldn't work out, I just close and junk this I guess...but please try to make it work, as we are all in the same clan here, and there is no point in us fighting with each other.
And remember, I'm always watching!!! Even if ya think I don't...
Maybe it's just me, but i'm starting to get abit tired of the constant gay/gachi/fag jokes that pop up every day these days. No, Yatta is not some gay fantasy club but a place for like-minded anime fans that evolved from a wot clan to a community, or that is what i joined in back then.
Somehow, even the new guys have to watch and listen this crap since it's entertaining for a few guys, and if ya complain about it, it's allways your own fault...
"Sometimes, you need to jump into the battlefield even if it seems like you'll surely die" - Pico / RF4
this thread isnt even needed to begin with , if u dont like what other people said or posted just ignore it or leave channel / conversation and im sure people will know whats up. and if u do make someone unhappy im sure a apologize and a day or two breaks people will just forgot about it. im not saying everyone is in the mood for jokes everyday, if they are unhappy or mad due to "unintentional aggravation" just go away and calm yourself and think about what went wrong and give time to aggravated parties and im sure they'll think about it too. And most of the time just a simply apologize is all u need
#Side note sometime i really wish that i can just PLAY WITH MY SELF .......
Well, as far as the function of this thread goes, it's for resolving disputes, or attempting to, if you aren't happy with people trying this, you don't need to be here.
I considered this as well, but i think once someone posts here, they probably are already experiencing problems in the clan, so i don't think it's going to worsen them.
Gotta agree with Pers here, even if this thread has the potential to start flamestorms and wars it still has it's purpose. Most of us here are adults and or well-behaving youngsters afterall so i'm pretty sure we can keep this thread quite civil and flame-less.
I'm pretty sure i'm not alone at all with my complaint here, but to continue my point since i'm not that sure if it got through at all judging from what i can see. Hell, i'm not perfect by any stretch of an imagination and i'm sure some enjoy and/or hate my arta whining. Sure, i'll try to tone it down abit if i'm asked, but will it conpletely stop? Probably not, but i'll still try to not constantly bring it up, which brings me back to what was talked about.
Do we really know that this won't completely stop? I'm pretty sure that wasn't what i was going for in the first place. And if it's up to us if we want to listen to it, but if we, who dislike hearing it all the time would just leave all the time, it would just result in that we would be looked down upon that we don't play with ya guys, can't take a joke etc. which would result in more issues considering active players in the clan. The solution to this issue can't be that 'if you don't like it, then you can leave'. Some might say that that's not true, but a few days all i asked that can we tone down the gay jokes and have a SH room named something else than 'Gay' something, and i was told to leave if i didn't like it. And that i did, even if i wanted to play SH at that time...however i can't see this as a good approach at all in the long run, since i can even see the possibility of people leaving the clan if it happens alot to someone.
And allso this myth that you have to watch Gachi to be a Yatta member is complete BS which i never agreed in the first place, since it might even make the newcomers unwelcome and want to leave if we try to be some gay fantasy club, which we are not. I'm not asking it to be stopped, i'm just asking for it to be toned down a little which tbh, isn't a big request in itself. I could go on deeper with this, but to prevent this completely escalating i'll stop here, as i am pretty sure ya can understand the opposing view what i'm trying to tell here.
@alson Maybe in a perfect world it would work like that, but there are times that the opposing side just won't understand you if ya leave etc. sometimes even giving the other person time to think about things will just make things worse. We are all different in that part, but it is true that if it completely hits the fan an apology usually fixes it to some degree anyway. I was sort of against this thread as well, but if it helps us to fix issues and not start wars, i'm fine with it then.
"Sometimes, you need to jump into the battlefield even if it seems like you'll surely die" - Pico / RF4
Your point still taken. Yet, you still going on about something which is your personal problem.
Well tbh i saw your initial post and...while it was interesting to read in alot of ways and ya missed alot of points i was trying to tell you, but it looks like we can't come up to an agreement on anything on this. And just saying that it can't be just a personal problem if i'm not alone with this issue, even Kurak said the same thing.
"Sometimes, you need to jump into the battlefield even if it seems like you'll surely die" - Pico / RF4
Your point still taken. Yet, you still going on about something which is your personal problem.
Well tbh i saw your initial post and...while it was interesting to read in alot of ways and ya missed alot of points i was trying to tell you, but it looks like we can't come up to an agreement on anything on this. And just saying that it can't be just a personal problem if i'm not alone with this issue, even Kurak said the same thing.
Yes, I decided to tone it down, because argumenting with you anymore is not productive. With that, you can stop now.
Last Edit: Dec 4, 2016 23:46:31 GMT by steamloller